Flatterer

A flatterer is an individual who often uses praise, compliments, or admiration as a means to gain favor, influence, or material benefits from others. This behavior can be seen as a form of social manipulation and is often characterized by insincerity and excessive praise. Flattery is commonly used in various social, professional, and personal contexts, sometimes crossing the line into deceptive or manipulative behavior.

Characteristics

Flatterers are known for their ability to use charm and compliments to influence others. They often possess high social skills and are adept at reading social cues to determine the most effective way to gain favor. While flattery can be a benign tool for social interaction, when used excessively or with ulterior motives, it can be seen as manipulative.

Psychological Perspective

From a psychological perspective, flattery can be a tactic used by individuals with certain personality traits, such as those high in Machiavellianism or those who exhibit traits of narcissism. These individuals might use flattery as a strategic tool to achieve their goals without regard for sincerity or the well-being of others.

Cultural Aspects

The perception and acceptance of flattery vary widely across different cultures. In some cultures, flattery is seen as a normal part of social interaction, while in others, it might be viewed with suspicion or as a sign of dishonesty.

In Literature and History

Throughout literature and history, flatterers have been depicted in various lights, often negatively. Classic works, such as those by William Shakespeare and in ancient texts like Aesop's Fables, caution against the manipulative nature of flatterers and the potential dangers of falling prey to their charms.

See Also

• Social influence
• Compliment
• Charm offensive
• Sycophant