Collars in BDSM

Collars in BDSM are a form of BDSM equipment that symbolize a dominant/submissive relationship between participants. They are often used in the BDSM community to signify ownership, submission, or a power exchange relationship. Collars can be made from various materials, including leather, metal, rubber, or cloth, and may be adorned with decorations such as studs, spikes, or locks.

Types of Collars

Training Collars

Training collars are used by dominants to train their submissives. These collars are typically temporary and signify that the submissive is being trained to serve their dominant.

Consideration Collars

A consideration collar is often the first type of collar given in a BDSM relationship. It symbolizes that the submissive is under consideration by a dominant for a more permanent or serious relationship.

Protection Collars

Protection collars indicate that a submissive is under the protection of a dominant, often used when a submissive is not owned but is still a part of the BDSM community.

Ownership Collars

An ownership collar, also known as a formal or slave collar, represents a long-term commitment between a dominant and submissive. It is often considered equivalent to a wedding ring in the BDSM community.

Play Collars

Play collars are used during BDSM play and scenes. They are typically more decorative and less symbolic than other types of collars.

Symbolism and Etiquette

The act of collaring has significant symbolism within the BDSM community. It represents trust, respect, and commitment between the dominant and submissive. The etiquette surrounding collars is complex and varies widely among individuals and communities. Generally, it is considered disrespectful to touch or comment on someone's collar without permission, as it is a deeply personal and often intimate symbol of their relationship.

Materials and Design

Collars can range from simple leather bands to elaborate pieces made of precious metals. The design often reflects the nature of the relationship between the dominant and submissive. Locking collars, which can only be removed by the dominant, are a common symbol of ownership and control.

Safety Considerations

Safety is a paramount concern in all BDSM activities, including the wearing of collars. It is important to ensure that collars do not restrict breathing or cause undue pressure on the neck. Quick-release mechanisms or safety features are recommended, especially for play collars used during physical activities.

Cultural Impact

Collars in BDSM have influenced mainstream culture and fashion, with collar-like jewelry and accessories becoming popular among those who may not participate in BDSM. However, within the BDSM community, the significance of a collar goes beyond mere fashion, embodying the principles of trust, respect, and mutual consent that underpin the lifestyle.