Dungeon monitor

Dungeon monitor is a role found within the BDSM community, specifically at BDSM play parties. The primary responsibility of a dungeon monitor is to ensure the physical safety and consent of the participants during play scenes.

Role and Responsibilities

A dungeon monitor, often abbreviated as DM, is a person who supervises the interactions between participants at a BDSM play party to ensure their safety and adherence to the event's rules. They are often experienced members of the BDSM community and are usually familiar with the various types of play that occur at such events.

Dungeon monitors are responsible for ensuring that all play is safe, sane, and consensual, which is the cornerstone of BDSM philosophy. They watch for signs of non-consent or situations that could lead to harm, either physical or emotional. They may also intervene in a scene if they believe that a participant's safety is at risk.

In addition to monitoring play scenes, dungeon monitors may also be responsible for enforcing the event's dress code, maintaining the cleanliness of the play space, and providing first aid if necessary.

Training

Dungeon monitors typically undergo training to prepare for their role. This training may include first aid and CPR certification, as well as education on the various types of BDSM play and potential risks associated with them. They may also learn about the legal aspects of BDSM play, as laws vary widely from place to place.

In the Community

The role of the dungeon monitor is highly respected within the BDSM community. They are seen as a crucial part of maintaining the safety and integrity of BDSM play parties. Some parties will not take place without the presence of a trained dungeon monitor.

See Also

• BDSM
• BDSM play party
• Safe, sane, and consensual