Narcissistic parent

Narcissistic parent is a term that refers to a parent or parents exhibiting behaviors and traits associated with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). These parents often prioritize their own needs and desires over those of their children, leading to a variety of negative effects on the child's development and well-being.

Characteristics

A narcissistic parent often exhibits behaviors that are characteristic of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. These may include a grandiose sense of self-importance, a preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success and power, a belief that they are special and unique, a need for excessive admiration, a sense of entitlement, and a lack of empathy.

In the context of parenting, these traits can manifest in a variety of ways. For example, a narcissistic parent may demand constant attention and admiration from their child, may be overly controlling or manipulative, may disregard the child's feelings and needs, and may use the child as a means to fulfill their own needs for validation and self-esteem.

Effects on Children

Children of narcissistic parents often experience a range of negative effects. These can include low self-esteem, feelings of worthlessness, chronic self-doubt, anxiety, depression, difficulties in forming healthy relationships, and a propensity to either become narcissistic themselves or to become co-dependent on other narcissists.

Treatment and Support

Treatment for those affected by a narcissistic parent often involves therapy, particularly Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). These therapies can help individuals to develop healthier thought patterns, manage their emotions more effectively, and build stronger, more positive relationships.

Support groups, both in-person and online, can also be beneficial. These groups provide a safe space for individuals to share their experiences, gain validation, and learn coping strategies.

See Also

• Narcissistic Personality Disorder
• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
• Dialectical Behavior Therapy